Dating Advice: The Power of Conversation
Conversations are central to the dating process. As a single seeking a highly compatible life partner, one way to look at your search is that you are seeking someone with whom you can have a compelling, life-long conversation. Essentially, as long as you can continue to have compelling, respectful, and growth-oriented conversations with your partner, you can keep the relationship alive and thriving. When the conversation ends, essentially your relationship ends.
You can see this for yourself. The next time you are out in a public setting, just take a look at the couples around you. See if you can see a direct correlation between the quality and enjoyment of the conversation they are having and the perceived quality of their relationship. In fact, if you could listen in to how couples talk with each other, you could begin to predict which couples are going to stay together, and which ones will end up separated or divorced.
Did you know that one of the biggest reasons that relationships end is because the partners stop being best friends? They lose that emotional connection and bonding that is essential to high-quality relationships. And that emotional connection withers and dies when compelling conversations become few and far between.
One way to determine if someone is highly compatible with you is whether or not they truly enjoy having conversations with you. Conversation is the one thing that will be with you for your whole life. The quality of your conversations determine the quality of your intimate relationship… and your entire life.
On your next date, pay attention to how the quality of the conversation determines the quality of your time together. It’s quite amazing!
-Denver
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