Singles

Are you single and seeking a life partner? Are you frustrated by the challenges of the modern dating scene?

As you know, being single today can be quite challenging. Perhaps you’ve tried some common paths in looking for a life partner: the online dating services, singles groups at your church, blind dates set up by friends, personal ads in the newspaper, hoping and waiting, passing out flyers at the local grocery store (just kidding)… and nothing is proving to be effective. And it’s all just getting a bit overwhelming. And besides, you may be thinking, “Are there any ‘good men’ or ‘good women’ left anyway?”

And if you’ve been married before… well, you’ve got some other considerations, right? Like the fear and risk involved in entering another intimate relationship or ending up with the same type of person as your previous relationship! Ouch! I’m sure you’ve heard the daunting statistic that over 60% of second marriages end in divorce. That alone can make you think twice before getting married again.

Is it possible in today’s fast-paced, divorce-filled culture to really create a happy, lasting, and fulfilling marriage or committed relationship? Or is that just a thing of the past?

There’s a better way to approach being single and finding your life partner! And it’s about being playful, having fun, and living life boldly and “out loud.” And as your Relationship Fitness Coach, I’d like to explore this idea with you. Do you have a couple of minutes to spend with me right now?

OK, first, let’s face it. We haven’t received a lot of quality guidance on how to create a happy, successful life as a single. And today’s world presents us singles with a number of challenges and dangers that simply didn’t exist just a few decades ago. Here are some examples: (a) We live in a culture where divorce is common and accepted, making us question if we should even get married. (b) Narcissism is growing (ever dated a narcissist – someone only interested in themselves? Yikes!). Narcissism and quality, committed relationships don’t work long-term. (c) Men are struggling to know what it really means to be a man (confusing both sexes). (d) Women are raising children alone and feeling the pressure to be “SuperMom!” – attempting to be successful at home and work while finding a committed partner. These and many other challenges are making it difficult to create and sustain a long-term intimate relationship. What I offer is an approach that helps you navigate these and other challenges successfully.

As a Relationship Fitness Coach, I help people like you develop the personal strength and power to live a successful life as a single, attract a life partner, and create a happy and lasting intimate relationship. Would you like to learn how to be a successful, thriving, and wildly happy single? Would you like to learn the skills necessary to create a fulfilling and lasting intimate relationship? Would you like to avoid the mistakes that so many people make in dating and selecting a life partner? Would you like to WIN in the game of love?

How Relationship Fitness Coaching Can Help.

Let’s face it, we weren’t taught how to play the game of love effectively. But as your Relationship Fitness Coach, I stand as a commitment to helping you live your life authentically, courageously, and effectively.  Together, we’ll work to define a vision of the type of life you truly want to create for yourself, and create a plan that inspires, challenges, and supports you in fulfilling that vision. And as your personal coach, I’ll personally support you in fulfilling your vision! In addition, we’ll explore the following topics to help you find a committed, highly compatible life partner to share your life with:

• Navigating the Nine Stages of a Human Relationship. All relationships move through several predictable stages. I’ll teach you what you can expect as you date and fall in love and how to avoid many of the common traps that most experience along the way.  This alone will make you a powerful participant in the world of intimate relationships while avoiding some BIG mistakes!
• Improving Your Physical, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Health. Your level of health has a dramatic impact on the type of people you attract into your life, the quality of relationship you can create and sustain, and your overall quality of life. Together, we can create simple and yet highly effective ways to improve the quality of your Personal Fitness AND the quality of your Relationship Fitness. When you are healthy, you attract a healthy partner!
• Engaging in the Opportunity of Being Single. Being single is not a disease or something that you have to be ashamed of; it’s a great opportunity to be and do many things. We explore these opportunities together and help you take advantage of those that interest you. This is learning how to be a powerful player in relationships and life!
• Avoiding Harmful Cultural Influences and Common Dating Traps. Our culture presents many challenges for today’s singles. We’ll explore those challenges and how to successfully navigate through them. Plus, you’ll learn about some common dating “traps” that can cause you to really mess up the game of love. We explore these together and how to stay out of them. Besides you want to have fun – not be trapped – right?
• Inventing a Powerful Way of Showing Up. How you show up determines who you attract into your life. I’ll coach you on how to show up powerfully, with confidence, courage, and full self-expression. This will make you VERY attractive!
• Speaking the Language of Love. Creating a long-lasting, committed relationship requires that you learn how to speak the language of love to yourself and others. You’ll learn and practice this language in the various relationships of your life. Amazing results!
• Living and Dating Powerfully – Becoming a “Living WOW!” As your coach, I’m going to share with you how most people live life and relate, what I call “The World of Woe,”  a way that results in broken relationships and broken hearts. And – best of all – I’ll coach you around what it means to live in “The World of WOW!” – an exciting and powerful way to date and live your life!

Are you ready to fine-tune your life, enhance your relationship skills, and find a highly-compatible life partner? If so, then I would enjoy speaking with you and exploring what is possible by working together. You’ll find me to be a compassionate, inspiring, and highly knowledgeable and supportive coach who is passionate about helping you to have a happy, fulfilling, and dynamic life and intimate relationship.  If you are interested in speaking with me, then I invite you to call or text me, Denver Hudson, Relationship Fitness Coach, today at (812) 236-5780 or e-mail me at denver@relationshipfitnessonline.com. We’ll set up a no-cost, no-obligation, “getting acquainted” phone call to discuss the possibility of working together. No pressure, I promise. Just a great opportunity to make being single a fun adventure while finding someone you can share and create  a life with! Sound good? Then contact me today!