Singles: YOU are the author of your life
One thing I recommend to singles before they get too serious about finding a Life Partner is to FIRST declare themselves as the author and creator of their own life experience. Not only does this make life a whole lot more exciting, it also makes YOU a whole lot more attractive. Seriously, would you rather marry someone who is just letting life happen to them, or do you want to be with someone who is making life happen? I’m sure your compatible Life Partner feels the same way!
So, as we approach 2010, take some time to slow down and reflect on what kind of life you want to author / create in this next year. You see, you can design your own life, and – in fact – you can design a whole new you! You can, through your imagination and the power of language create compelling visions for the various areas of your life and then begin to take the steps to make those visions a living reality. (This is what I help people do through Singles Coaching.)
Here are some questions to consider:
- Are you living TODAY as the author of your own life experience?
- What is the vision you have for the next chapter (year) of your life?
- If your seeking a highly compatible Life Partner, what kind of vision would your partner have that would make them attractive to you?
- Who will you need to become to live the vision that you have for the next chapter of your life?
Regardless of what the earlier chapters of your life have been, today you can begin writing a new chapter. Give yourself permission to be powerful. To be bold. And to live your vision courageously!
- Denver
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