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Denver J. Hudson, Relationship Fitness Coach, Speaker
Welcome to Relationship Fitness Online!
I’m Denver Hudson, and welcome to my online home, and to what I hope will become one of your favorite places to visit, learn and contribute.
A few quick questions to see if you’re in the right place:
ARE YOU SINGLE and wanting to attract a highly-compatible life partner? Wondering why it is so hard to find a partner that actually wants to commit? Doubtful if you should even marry (or marry again) given the growing number of divorces you see all around you? Fed up with family and friends pressuring you to get into a “serious” relationship before it’s too late? Singles Coaching can help!
ARE YOU DIVORCED and want to reinvent your life? Ready to restore your health, heal your heart, and find love again? Would you like to understand what went wrong with your marriage? Scared about having the same problems in a new relationship? Ready to embrace life again with a renewed passion and zest? Divorce Recovery Coaching can help!
ARE YOU MARRIED OR IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP and want to reignite passion, intimacy, and purpose with your partner? Are you in midlife and feeling that your relationship is a little “flat” if not right down boring? Are you growing concerned that your marriage may – in fact – be dying and you want to reverse things NOW before it’s too late? Couples Coaching can help!
The answer to these questions is what I’m all about. This is my commitment and my life mission: to assist you, personally and professionally, in creating yourself, your committed relationships, and your life, as the highest vision you can imagine. And that’s why this website exist.
It’s Time to Turn Our Relationships – and Lives – Around!
Like you, I’m disturbed by seeing friends and family members suffer due to divorce. I’m disheartened with hearing about how lonely singles are and how scared they are when it comes to the idea of getting married for the first time – or again for the second or third time. I’m disappointed with the usual ideas of romantic love that don’t tell the whole story, starting out great but ending in mediocre marriages or relationship disasters.
I feel sad when I see couples who look like the walking dead, who’s passion for life got lost somewhere in the everyday living of their lives.
And I’m committed to doing something about it!
I’m on a Mission to Transform the State of Human Relationships “from Woe to WOW!” and to Make Optimal Health and Conscious Loving a Way of Life!
We all need to stand for something, and I am a stand for YOU, your health, your relationships, and your life. I’m bringing it all to bear: My experience. My training. The latest research and technologies from the fields of psychology, ontology, neuroscience, spirituality and personal transformation. I’m committed to being more open with you about my own journey and what I’ve learned as a way to inspire and encourage you along your own journey.
Yes, I’m on a mission to create a Relationship Fitness Revolution, where singles and committed couples rise up and become a living commitment to optimal health, conscious relating, and to making a meaningful difference in the world. And I would enjoy working with you personally, to make that happen in YOUR life.
Is NOW the Right Time for YOU?
- Are you ready to transform your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health? Ready for greater strength, vitality, happiness, clarity of mind, and purpose in your life?
- Are you ready to explore new ways of relating to yourself and others – ways that enrich the quality of your life and open up new possibilities? Are you ready to learn what it takes to become amazingly attractive, incredibly powerful and confident, while intentionally creating a life that you truly love?
- Are YOU ready to enjoy a committed, intimate relationship in which each of you can be your very best today and in the years ahead?
If you answered YES! to one or more of these questions, then NOW is the time to take action!
- What I offer is a safe, challenging, and energizing learning environment in which you learn and apply the skills, practices, habits, and mindsets that will transform your health and committed relationships. It’s time to stop feeling stuck, stop settling for mediocre living, stop giving up on your goals, and turn things around! I will help you do just that!
- What I offer are solutions, resources, options, and new perspectives for singles and couples who desire to create healthy, vital, and fulfilling intimate relationships.
- What I offer is compassion, understanding, caring, and advice for divorced individuals who are working to rebuild their lives and who desire to enter into another intimate, committed relationship. (I’ve been there myself…twice!)
- What I offer are strategies, plans, and wisdom that will help singles and committed couples create healthier ways of relating that will take their relationships and lives to new levels of effectiveness and fulfillment.
Who am I? And a bit of my story…
Divorce has touched my life personally. I’ve literally had my life turned upside down, and during that time asked and answered many of the questions you may be asking in your life right now. As my world fell apart, I looked deeply into the eyes of the man in the mirror, and discovered aspects of myself that contributed to my relationships ending as well as parts of myself that were ready to be born anew.
I’ve learned the hard way what causes a relationship to break apart, and I’ve learned new ways that make them work! My personal experiences, combined with 30 years of passionate interest and learning in the field of human relationships, is fueling my passion for the work that I do. A work that YOU can benefit from personally as a guest of this website and a potential coaching client.
Who I am is a stand for your optimal health, conscious loving, and purposeful living. A stand for your happiness and your fulfillment. A stand for your full actualization as a man or woman, lived fully in the context of an intimate and dynamic relationship.
The Best Place to Start…
1. If you are single – request the “Relationship Readiness Assessment.”
As a guest to my website, you’ll be learning about the various stages involved in a romantic human relationship. The first phase is called “The Readiness Stage” and the fundamental question is: “Am I ready for a committed relationship?” This 14-item assessment will give you immediate insight into your readiness as a single. And it’s FREE! Request your copy today, by e-mailing me at denver@relationshipfitnessonline.com. Reflectively complete the assessment, and then feel free to contact me for a FREE review of your results.
2. Download “What is Relationship Fitness?” to familiarize yourself with the benefits of Relationship Fitness Coaching and how it differs from Therapy.
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4. Reflect on these fundamental questions – then e-mail me for some FREE coaching!
- Am I fed up with being tired, passive, and disengaged from my own life? Am I ready to be more physically energized, emotionally connected, mentally focused, and spiritually aligned with my purpose and values? How would my life change if I was experiencing a higher level of personal fitness?
- Singles: Am I ready to get serious about finding someone to spend my life with? And not just the first person that comes along, but a true, highly-compatible partner that knows how to make and keep a lifetime commitment? Am I ready to learn how to intentionally create a dynamic, exciting, and fulfilling relationship – for life?
- Committed Couples: Am I ready to reignite the love, passion, and intimacy in my committed relationship? Am I ready to stop waiting around for things to change, hoping they’ll get better, and take action NOW before it’s too late? How would our lives be better if we were more intentional about our marriage and the way we relate to each other?
- What are the excuses I am thinking about right now that are preventing me from contacting Denver today? Are any of these excuses more important to me than my health, my relationships, and my quality of life?
In service to your greatness,
Denver Hudson
denver@relationshipfitnessonline.com